After study around two years in University, just know that many of my course mate still receive pocket money from their parents in order to continue their studies and life in the university….
I’m quite surprise that how come have such many people still need their families supported even though they already 21 years old???
Aren’t that if you no matter he or she are 21 years old already that means they are big enough?
After 21 years old, we should not depend on families, right?? Because we are adult and become dependents already, right?!!
Then, how come although they said there are mature and had receive “key” already, they still want receive pocket money from their families??
Very confuse…
When I enter to university, in the first few months in semester one, I really got receive some pocket money from my mom… But after that, even though my mom asks me and wants to give money for me spends in University, I really don’t want take that money from her already…
Is not because I have much money to spend… is just because I don’t want depends on others to survive... I will depends on my PTPTN to survive in my daily life… although that money is not so much, but I think it is enough if we do not misuse that money…
Maybe everyone have different perception and perspective regarding this issue…
And in my point of view, I just feel that:
I already big enough… I have my own though, life and needs and wants…and its all are not related to my families members… therefore, if possible, I really don’t want ask for other people helps and don’t want always depends on others…
I want to be a dependent person… even though in reality I always feel that I’m very independent… but, I will try my best…
In my memories, some people say that I quite dependents, but in fact, I’m not… maybe because our belief is not same… but I really got take some effort on it… and maybe this effort can seem by others…therefore, they said I am a dependent person…
Sometimes, when I look through my friends, some of them quite dependents… they live in their way of life… does whatever that they want, need not to thinks so much… live for them but not others…
In my mind, I really envy them… hope in the near future; I also can become like that… become so independent…
